a grand idea in the scheme of things

[Byron Kinnaman]

Byron's comments are very sensible I think and I would bet they agree with most of our actual experiences.

My personal preference would be that women learn to protect themselves and thereby make the world a little less safe for the scumbags. But everyone should pursue their own level of comfort and if traveling in convoy is it, then so be it.

It's always wise to be aware of your surroundings no matter where you are.
My earlier comments were to point that most of fears are unfounded. Some are fueled by the news media, some fueled by movies, and some we are simply born with. I think the best way to combat your fears is to analyize them. I usually look at probabilities. What are the chances of running into the bad guy, like you see in the movies? Pretty slim.

A person's fears are very real to them, so they should be respected as real. Then work through them. If you're more comfortable going with a group, go to where there's a group that you know as much as possible. Go to established campgrouds where families go. The more comfortable you get with camping in own little trailer, the more you'll want to go. Eventually you'll start pushing your personal limits a bit. Every time you push out a bit, then get comfortable at that point the closer you come really being able to enjoy without fear.

Without fear doesn't mean without caution. If a person feels unfortable in situation get out the situation as soon as you can. Even old macho me does that.