Oh Goodness Alf, she's adorable!!!
I don't have children myself, but I do have Nieces and Nephews...and Great-Nieces and Nephews...best trips of my life was taking the "Great Ones" camping last year in Michigan..4 out of 7 of them. All 5 of us were snuggled in the trailer, when my little nephew said "Aunt Carol, this is the best fun I've ever had...even better than Disney World!" all I could say is "I'm glad you're having a good time.." My little niece said "Me too.." then it went on like a closing episode of The Waltons...
My wish for you is to have great memory making moments with Aylen - making memories is what it's ALL about!!
Don't spoil her..just give her what she wants!!