If you are trying the cheaper route, you could first try Craigslist under RV/camper, or locate an RV store in your area that has used tanks and other parts. You want one that is not any deeper than the depth of the trailer
axle, otherwise you risk catching it on something when off-road. That can ruin your day!
I installed an after-market gray water tank on my 13'
Scamp and reduced the outlet to ¾”. I then ran a pvc pipe close to the side of the camper, installed a pvc gate valve, then a short piece with threaded end and screw cap. I did that because it allows me to drain the tank periodically into a 2-gallon collapsible container. I can then empty it into a pit toilet when at national forest or private campgrounds, or empty it well-away from any dispersed camping sites.
For draining and flushing when at a developed dump site, I cut off the male end of the drain hose and replaced it with a female end. Both ends of the hose now have female ends. After draining the tank, I can then hook up the hose to the faucet at the campgrounds or later at home, and backflush the tank. You can be sure the 3/4” hose is flushing the tank with more force than any backflushing through a 3” hose fitting. Afterwards, I also pour a little liquid odor control in the tank.
Not sure what others do, but I don’t let the tank get full to 20 or 30 gallons. I drain it periodically so it doesn’t take long at all. The simplicity of the process allows me to empty the tank in a lot less time than those clowns ahead a me who take forever just to decide what to do, take forever to do it, and then sit in their camper doing god-knows-what for 5 minutes before moving ahead to let someone else dump.
So not to worry about getting behind us 3/4" hose people; worry about the other 3" yahoos who have what seems 500 gallon tanks.