Originally Posted by Darnelle
We now have a 13' with front couch. That's where our daughter is supposed to sleep, but...
Understand that! Every child is different. My older daughter had staked out the upper bunk as her kingdom. On our last trip the younger fought tooth and nail to get a turn, so we let her have it for the first night out. Set everything up, and in the time it took me to go to the bathhouse to brush my teeth, they had switched back. The younger decided she hated the bunk. Current arrangement: wife and younger on dinette bed, head to toe, older on upper bunk, me on lower bunk. (BTW, my wife said to thank the FGRV folks for suggesting head-to-toe sleeping. It made a huge difference on the narrow 45" bed!)
You may have to try out several different arrangements to find what works, and what works this time may not work the next time. That's life with kids!