In some areas you can ship by passenger bus, usually Greyhound. Very cheap if available. Another might be via inter-city truck lines. That is likely dock to dock, not home delivery. The main tent is 35 lbs and comes new in an 8" x 8" box six feet long (I measured). The wind flaps are maybe 5 lbs. Amazon might specify their
weight. On the web you may locate contract delivery services, sort of like UBER. What about a college student, a responsible one? Inter city truck lines are like Yellow Freight, Old Dominion and the like. UPS & FedEx own some of them too.