I had the EXACT same problem with my 98 Widebody, and spent just about as much time as you getting frustrated. The boys are onto something when they say the grey tank is not venting. You can do 1 of 2 things: always park your
Burro with the tongue aimed at the ground (not recommended), or fix the plumbing under the sink.
When the boneheads at
Burro put my trailer together they either canted the hoizontal drainpipe under the sink the wrong way, or they gave it no cant at all. The result was that when water went down the kitchen sink the first place it went was to the left, where the vent pipe came down from the roof, effectively blocking any venting. So, as you say, water just came burbling up out the shower drain. The solution is relatively easy if you're comfortable working with plastic pipe. I cut the vertical vent pipe about 1 1/2 inches above the elbow, removed a section of the horizontal pipe past the elbow, then installed a new elbow and pipe section, thus raising the vent end by that 1 1/2 inches. Made all the difference in the world and now the drain works perfectly.