I think you may have mis-understood what axles are generally installed as replacements.
The stock axles until about 2021 or so, were a Dexter (or Standens) 3500 lb
axle with a #84 spindle. That
axle has a 2-3/8 outside diameter tube. For whatever reason, a good number of people with 25 and 21 ft Bigfoot trailers have bent the axle between the spring and the brake. Some severely.
What BF did in production and what is encouraged for replacements is a 3500 lb axle built with a 3 inch outside diameter tube and still with a #84 spindle. It uses the same 10 inch
brakes and hubs and bearings as any other 3500 lb axle and as the previous ones had.
A FEW, and I mean very few, people had their trailers equipped with 4400 or 6000 lb axles which give you the 12 inch
brakes and heavier bearings. These people were operating over gross
weight, on unimproved roads. This is overkill for a trailer operated normally.
In my case, I still have the small tube axles, but was replacing my alloy wheels because 1) ugly, and 2) clear coat was becoming milky. I was able to get
new wheels of the design I wanted, but in 6 lug, for about the same price as refinishing the original wheels. Yes, I had to buy new hub/drum units and install new Timken races and bearings, but what I ended up with are 3500 lb axles (1750 lb per spindle) and wheels rated at 3200 lbs EACH at 95 psi max (exact same wheel with five lug is rated at 2150 lb at 80 psi max). My
tires are rated at 2830 lbs at 80 psi max. (I run them at 50 psi cold).
Should I ever damage an axle, I will upgrade to a 3500 lb axle with a 3 inch tube. My 21 ft trailer has the same 7500 lb GVWR as the 25 ft models, so it has the same axles and springs as a 25 ft of the same year would.
Two 3500 lb axles (7000 lb total) on a 7500 lb GVWR is rather normal, as the axles will never carry the total
weight of the trailer. I am currently running a tongue
weight of about 850 lbs, and a gross weight of about 6500 lbs. Its been a long time since I was on the scales, next trip loaded, I may weigh it again.
One of the best things you can do to a trailer, if not already equipped, is install wet bolts and the 1/2 inch wide shackles. These are much stronger and impart much stability, eliminating the side to side wobble of the thin shackles.
Charles